By: AliciaMarie Belchak ’98 (Ireland ’98)
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It may have been wild, wet, and windy in Tully Cross, Ireland last October (blessed
by hurricane-like storms shaking the Atlantic), but the welcome was as warm and wonderful
as ever for those of us AQ Yanks returning to the village.
We were gathering for a homecoming of the best sort - to celebrate the 40th Anniversary
of the AQ Ireland program. In fact, we were THE Gathering - an official event of the
Failte Ireland tourism campaign for Co. Galway. And the folks of Tully Cross and Connemara
West had bedecked the town with flags and pennants, unfurled the welcome banners,
and hosted a flurry of events for the 50 or so Aquinas Ireland alum and their families
who had traveled across the pond for a weekend reunion, October 23-27, 2013.
Thanks to our Tully Cross hosts, we were treated to a community feast at the Renvyle
House Hotel followed by a rousing performance of traditional Irish music and dancing.
We explored the area’s rich and ancient archeological history with a windy walking
tour. We visited old friends and familiar haunts - climbing mountains and braving
torrential rains. We gathered in pubs to swap stories, catch up with the locals, and
enjoy more music. Some of us watched a play about the life of Yeats - performed where
once stood the town’s grocery store. There even was an official grand opening with
a speech from Sister Alice Wittenbach and a parade in Letterfrack - and to close the
weekend, a special Mass and homily from Sister Rosemary O’Donnell honoring the long
and productive friendship between Ireland and Aquinas. Sister Catherine Williams led
the choir in prayer and song.
For many of us, it had been many years since we were able to get back to the people,
sweeping views, and cozy thatched cottages of Connemara. I had the privilege of meeting
AQ Ireland alum from the most recent years and those from decades before me - and
I am so happy to have made many new friends with them! Sharing memories over pints
in Coyne’s or Salmon’s, we compared notes and reminisced about how things had changed
or stayed the same - and how some things never change. We told stories of our professors
and our travels - oh, the wild Irish adventures some of us had!
For me, it was a double reunion as I was also celebrating 15 years since my time in
Tully Cross, and this time I brought my husband and two little ones. I wanted them
to fall in love with Ireland like I had and understand firsthand the stories I have
long told. And together, we reveled in Irish-ness and become fellow Cottage #9-ers
all over again.
We came home with new memories, new friends, and new resolve to return once again
someday…soon. As my friend and fellow alum Jeff Coon said best: “For former students,
Tully Cross is more than a place we have visited; it is a part of who we are.”